Some women who are raped get pregnant. So do others who may be in unfortunate relationships, or burdened with already large families. Yet it is often that case that happily married couples who could provide wonderful homes for children remain childless. Whether there is some divine logic in this, or whether it is just part of natural injustice remains a mystery.
Despite the apparent irrationality of the reproductive process, human beings are adept at finding ways to overcome problems. Fertility clinics achieve amazing results, and the adoption option often works to the advantage of parents and children. However, there may be many easier options.
Some lucky women fall pregnant when they wish for it. They are relaxed about it and so do not get into knots and unnecessary worries. These are sure fire ways to stop what is wished for. If month after month the depressing signal is delivered that the wished for pregnancy has not happened, increased tension reduces the likelihood of conception. The more formal and calculated natural sex is, the more likely will become the need for artificial insemination.
But there are subtle ways in which the chances can be improved. Romance, leading to deep penetration and orgasm is a mix of subtlety and brutishness. But when things are too planned and calculated romance will be killed, and with it, possibly, the happy accident of conception.
Quietly, without fuss, a woman can increase her chances through body movements that keep wandering sperm as near as possible to her cervix where an egg waits after ovulation. It will not stay alive for as long as the sperm, so opportunities should be created gently. When a woman climaxes, her orgasm probably helps the egg and sperm to float together. She could also encourage her partner to increase his sperm count through the use of vitamins.
A woman should prefer the man on top, and should not stand up and rush off to the shower as soon as the act of sex is over. Rather she should lie still, with her knees drawn up, eyes closed and a slight smile on her lips as though mentally feeling conception within her. This will please her partner too, and encourage more sexual activity later. The more the merrier, as far as conception is concerned.
Conception is encouraged by deep penetration. This will help deposit the sperm as close as possible to the cervix where an egg may be loitering. Mutual orgasm will probably assist the egg and sperm coming together in a mingling of body fluids. The miracle of life begins with mutual pleasure.
The missionary positions attracts many post modern sneers, but it sis well suited to conception because it allows deep penetration, and gravity helps the sperm on their way. Rear entry or side-by-side are both helpful and should be followed by a relaxed rolling over and tilting of the hips to keep the sperm flowing the right way. Hopefully these simple measures will help a girl get pregnant and obviate expensive and painful alternatives.
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