Why He May Be Cheating On You
There could be all sorts of reasons known only to your man, but
there are also those reasons in which women may contribute to,
such as: You Let Yourself Go, You Lost Yourself In Him, or You
Have No Ambition along with many others. Sometimes women live
for their men. They spend all their waking time taking care of
them, and at the end of the day, they still haven’t accomplished
anything for themselves.
You are thinking all alone that this is what he wants in a
woman, when all along, he wants the complete opposite. Women get
caught up too often trying to be the woman that they think their
men want. He wants you to be you. After all, the woman you were
when you two met, is who he wants you to be. Never pretend to be
something you’re not, because you’ll have to keep up this
charade for the remainder of the relationship. That’s hard to
keep up. You start to get relaxed and too comfortable in the
relationship and that’s when the “real you” starts to gradually
come out. Be yourself in the beginning and eliminate the future
problems of him going out and maybe cheating on you because
you’ve changed.
Women also essentially end up resenting their men, because they
have put their goals and dreams aside. The women make their
choices, but somewhere in between, they become unhappy with the
choices they have made. They start acting depressed, miserable,
and sad all the time, because they are not happy. This is when
he starts to get tired of looking at you miserable everyday. He
starts seeing a woman who makes him laugh again, who he starts
to have fun with and where does this leave you? Still at home
miserable thinking that he is feeling sorry for you. He is. He
is feeling sorry that he has to tell you that it’s over.
So, in the initial beginning of the relationship, both parties
need to be in agreement of what they want and expect from each
other.
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