If you want to have men attracted to you and committed to you in the long run, then you have to become more than just a one dimensional woman.
What is a one dimensional person?
A one dimensional person is someone who makes certain parts of themselves wrong, or ‘unworthy’.
Similarly, a one dimensional person is someone who uses up so much of their available energy on one domain that they can’t be the full range of personalities inside of them.
A common way that one dimensional people use up their energy is through worry and anxiety.
They spend so much of their excess energy on anxiety that they lose other, super important parts of their personality, like:
If you want to lose commitment from a man, and lose the passion and attraction he feels for you, then the quickest way to do is, is being one dimensional.
In other words, be “boring”.
One of the biggest mistakes many women (and men) make in their relationship is to be continually showing up as one kind of person.
Or being the same person over and over.
This is kind of like the nice guy who is always just nice, or the kind and caring woman who is always just kind and caring.
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Which one of these 8 feminine archetypes are you? Answer these 21 questions to discover which feminine archetype you are and how it positively and negatively affects every relationship you have. (Especially your intimate relationship with men.)
1. I can often feel other people’s intentions from a mile away
2. The thought of newborn babies make me feel…
Very emotional and tender
Terrified
Happy and calm
I’m relatively indifferent to newborn babies
3. When I have to make a tough decision…
My brain always knows the better answer
My gut always tells me what to do
I will get all the facts and data and make a decision
Give it some time and the answer will come to me
4. In my current or previous relationship…
I enjoy how a man is so different to me
I get annoyed that a man is so different to me
We are so different I often thought I’d be better off alone
His differences make me appreciate and love him more
5. I would prefer...
Pleasure of the mind
Pleasure of the soul
6. In terms of dancing…
I love to dance and move my body
I find it a chore
7. I believe in premonitions
True
False
I’m willing to entertain the idea
It’s a load of nonsense
8. When I meet someone for the first time, I get a gut feeling whether I can trust them or not.
Very true
It usually takes me a while to figure this out
9. In my old age, it’s more important to look back and know that
You’ve connected with others and created strong bonds
You’ve achieved all your dreams
You had truly cared about those around you
You ticked everything off of your bucket list
10. When someone hurts themselves...
I rush to see if they need help
I’d rather see them help themselves
11. True or false... A man and a woman should get along if they love each other.
True
False
I don't know...
12. Regarding sex...
I prefer he initiated sex with me
I’m more than comfortable taking what I want from him in the bedroom
13. When I’m faced with something unknown, I trust
My gut feelings more than my thoughts
My thoughts more than my gut feelings
14. I would prefer to be more...
Liked by others
Envied by others
15. Confrontations are...
To be avoided if possible
Can often work in my favour
16. It’s more important to…
Pursue my own dreams and goals
Live cohesively in my tribe
17. When a friend is upset, my first instinct is to:
Run away, I’ve been used by enough friends
Give them some space until they're ready to talk.
Suggest practical solutions to their problems.
Give them a hug and listen to them
18. On a rainy day, I prefer…
The safety and warmth of my home
The excitement of a new exotic location
19. Which is more true?
Conflicts serve a good purpose in my relationship
Conflicts are to be avoided in my relationship
Conflict will cause my relationship to die
With the right man, conflicts only strengthen our relationship
20. How important are other people’s feelings?
Super important to me.
Little importance to me.
Other people’s feelings are none of my business.
21. In social situations, I am...
The peacemaker who ensures everyone feels included.
The dominant personality who likes to lead.
The enigmatic figure who draws others in with mystery.
The observer who watches from the sidelines.
We are analysing your feminine archetype right now and preparing your personalised summary.
Here’s something interesting to know before moving forward…
Every single one of these archetypes has strengths and weaknesses. No matter how ego stroking it may be to identify with your archetype, know that it’s just a starting point.
It is your job to be aware of the strengths and weaknesses so that you can grow, evolve and become who you are meant to become.
Ultimately you want to become a full multi-dimensional human being. In order to truly become a high value individual, you want to tap into the value that every part of you has to bring to the table.
This feminine archetype quiz is one step along this journey to help you discover who you are, and who you will become.
So here is the next step.
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How would you feel if you were to eat the same food every single day for the rest of your life?
How would you feel if you were going to be confined to only one location for the rest of your life?
My point? It’s that we all need variety. The human body needs variety.
We get sick of what is always familiar and available to us.
This is so important in an intimate relationship… let me explain why.
If you’re always showing up to be “one type” of person…whatever that type may be, then you’ll get boring eventually.
It’s what I call…being “one dimensional”.
People who are one dimensional can’t see life from another angle. They’re stuck in their own limited idea of their own identity.
This is very restrictive and unhealthy for their own soul, not to mention for their partner.
Simply put:
The more connected you are to different parts of yourself, the less you dissociate from parts of yourself that you deem “undesirable” or worthy of judgement, the less value you’ll have to give.
Every high value woman can connect with her man and with people on multiple levels or dimensions.
When you refuse to do this – when you have too many rules – you lose the chance to offer great value (and therefore show up high value).
Boredom and relationships don’t go too well together. In fact, boredom is one of those silent killers that don’t really appear in front of your face.
Rather, it just sits in the corner and does all the damage.
If you are not multi-dimensional, or don’t have many sides to you, then your relationship will eventually become boring.
It may be fine at the start, (most relationships are…) but give it some time, and boredom will set in.
When boredom kicks in, then the relationship is in trouble. Passion dissipates, as the relationship spirals downwards towards an end.
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Being a feminine woman, the most important personalities you need are the light feminine and the dark feminine. Having both will give you depth and prevent any boredom from settling into your relationship.
This is what the meaning of a multi dimensional woman: you are dar and light feminine.
You are also willing and able to be in your masculine when you need to be too!
(See: Why Being Feminine Is Not Always High Value.)
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Renee is the founder of The Feminine Woman & co-founder of Shen Wade Media where we teach women how to show up as a high value high status woman whom easily inspires a deep sense of emotional commitment from her chosen man. She graduated with a bachelor of Law and bachelor of Arts majoring in sociology and psychology. She has been a dating and relationship coach for women in the past 15 years and together with her husband D. Shen at Commitment Triggers blog, they have positively influenced the lives of over 20 million women through their articles and videos as well as 10’s of thousands through paid programs through the Shen Wade Media platform.
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