Hobbies for women are a powerful way to add value to yourself & your life.
When I think of hobbies for women, I think mores about passions. I normally like to call them “passions” rather than hobbies.
Hobbies sort of seems like something you halfheartedly do just for the sake of doing something or just to pass the time when you’re bored.
Hobbies are great to pass the time, but passions make you feel alive.
Sometimes, we just need to get some more empowering and healthier ways to meet our needs. Hobbies are one of these ways. It’s important to keep your mind and body constantly growing – if you’re not growing, you’re dying!
Why hobbies or passions?
I believe that TV, chocolate, and Netflix is not a quality way to meet your needs as a woman or as a human! TV is a distraction unless you’re watching educational shows.
TV is a life sucker, it is something that can make you more lazy – and I do not recommend it!
I have not watched TV since 2007. I’ve watched the odd Olympic event and maybe 30 minutes of random news. I’ve seen snippets of The Bold and The Beautiful at my mother in law’s (because she often keeps the TV on).
Cutting out TV is one reason why this blog has been in existence since 2009 – it is the reason I have delved into my passion for helping women have deeply committed, passionate relationships.
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Something else to consider is that we nowadays, we can live very closed lives.
For a lot of us women, rather than having healthy hobbies that actually add value to our lives, we choose distractions.
Distractions won’t add to your value as a woman, but hobbies that you are passionate about, will.
For a lot of us, rather than adding value to ourselves and investing in ourselves through feminine hobbies, it’s all about which person is getting kicked off which reality TV show.
We can also get ‘stuck’ in comparing our lives to other people’s lives on social media. In other words, we waste our time obsessing over other people’s lives instead of investing in making our own lives better through hobbies and passions!
Not to mention that for most young women, they no longer talk about what their greatest passion and interest is or what they’re doing to add to other people’s lives.
Rather than challenging ourselves, in some social circles it’s more about who has more cheap followers on social.
We also can’t forget that rather than having true passions and hobbies, our focus and our lifestyle is about escaping. Sometimes we are more about how drunk you got on Friday or Saturday night.
There are much healthier ways for a woman to spend her time. Of course, there’s nothing inherently wrong with having a good time, and having a drink every now and then.
However, there IS something wrong when you feel you need to drink something, sniff something, inject something, swallow something, or smoke something in order to get yourself into a good mood.
QUIZ TIME: Are you truly living in your feminine energy?
So let’s take a look at some hobbies for women that will make us feel more like a woman, make us more interesting and charismatic, and more importantly – make you a high value woman.
When we add value to ourselves, we become higher value. And don’t cheap out on yourself – don’t just watch TV to feel connected or to meet your needs cheaply. I challenge you to get out of your comfort zone! You can never get the time that TV wasted back.
Netflix isn’t going to say sorry to you for wasting your life away!
When I say hobbies for women – I’m referring to anything that fulfils you at a deep level and recharges you and enriches your life (this doesn’t mean men can’t do the things I’ve listed!).
These are hobbies I spent a lot of time and energy researching, and they are things that will make you feel good for doing them.
We all want to feel like we are enough – and it is when we habitually feel like we are not enough that we live mediocre lives of desperation.
To feel like we are enough – to feel confident, we must consistently be meeting our needs in superior ways. Quality passions is one way to achieve this.
you can say to ANY man that will capture his attention, trigger his curiosity and make him hang onto every word you say! (Works like magic in a high vale non-needy way!)
Cooking is a wonderful thing to do. When it is done with love, you can fill people’s bellies with nutrition and their soul with joy.
It is nutrition that makes us heal, and it is nutrition that makes us happy, healthy and capable.
Eat the wrong things for long enough, and the consequences can be dire for our health and our potential.
Cooking is also a hobby and an art that you can enjoy with your girlfriends, aunties, cousins, mum, grandma, etc.
Experiment with making pretty Paleo cupcakes or healthy Paleo breads like this one. Much most importantly, it’s great if you can learn to cook very healthy and nutritious meals for your friends/family/boyfriend.
Invest in a great cookbook like The 4-hour Chef by Tim Ferris, follow Gordon Ramsay on YouTube (always learn from the best of the best, or for ideas, go try ichef or FreeRecipe.org