Relationships are fragile and should be handled with a lot of love and care. Women more so. Women have more emotions and empathy as compared to men and men are not very capable or successful with emotions. In a relationship, men forget to be sensitive towards a woman and end up saying the most inappropriate things at the most inappropriate time. They forget that words have a lot of power and that we women do not forgive or forget so easily. It may be easier to get forgiveness but getting us to forget may be near to impossible task. We can remember that one hurtful thing you said 3 years ago during that one fight. And you don’t want a list of all the inappropriate thing you said at all the wrong times. So, here’s a list of things you should never tell your girlfriend.
1. You’ve put on weight
No, you did not just say that. That’s the same as calling her fat. Even is she asks you about her weight, do not say it. She doesn’t want or need an honest opinion.
3. You’re wearing too much make-up
This implies that you are calling her ugly. She knows how to wear makeup and how much. She has been doing this long enough so quit being so rude.
4. You are too emotional
She may be too emotional for you considering the lack of empathy but you cannot blame her for feeling emotions. Saying this means you cannot handle her emotions and that will only agitate her more. Do not tell her that she’s overreacting.
5. Are you on your period?
You just called her irrational when you asked this question. You cannot blame her reproductive organs for her behavior and emotions.
6. My ex used to do…..
Don’t talk about your ex or compare your girlfriend to your ex. Especially in bed, you don’t want to be caught thinking about your ex while kissing your current girlfriend.
